confused
janice jotted on Friday, May 02, 2008 @ 11:02 PM
im still a little confused.
we know that everyone is different,
then how does friendship works?
we know that there are a certain few people that we can click with,
and with these people, what are the things that keep the friendship together?
the level of intimacy is increased,
when we are willing to share more than the superficial,
when we are willing to confide with our vulnerabilities.
but before that,
i did think that,
the little things matter too.
like appreciation, reciprocating, affirming, and trusting.
sometimes with direct works, sometimes with the body language.
but would everyone do the same?
if there is no reciprocation, and no bonding through trust,
or contradicting body languages at different points in time,
can the two still feel comfortable even to remain close for long?
if there is no outright proclamation to the status of the friendship,
is it a mutual thing that the friendship is more than acquaintance?
its weird.
i cant find a answer to these yet.
and it has been going round and round and round.
wish i can reach a conclusion i can be satisfied with and have less frustrating moments.
:D
friends are important.
